normal person: so what do you like to do
me: listen to music
normal person: oh, thats neat, i like music too
me: no you dont understand
When you’re sad, you only remember sad things. When you’re happy, you’re able to remember both.
You guys can probably relate to this. When you’re sad, you ruminate about other depressing things and you dread about tomorrow. But when you’re happy, you remember the good and bad times. You think about the hardships you’ve been through and how you’re feeling better now. You also look forward to the future.
In a study conducted using hypnosis and recall, the study finds that when people were hypnotized to be happy, they remember both content (that are positive and negative) whereas when hypnotized to be sad, they can only recall mostly the negative things.
Memories are what warm you up from the inside. But they’re also what tear you apart.
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| — | Haruki Murakami (via onlinecounsellingcollege) |
If you want to be sad, no one in the world can make you happy. But if you make up your mind to be happy, no one and nothing on earth can take that happiness from you.
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| — | Paramahansa Yogananda (via onlinecounsellingcollege) |
We all do things we desperately wish we could undo. Those regrets just become part of who we are, along with everything else. To spend time trying to change that, well, it’s like chasing clouds.
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| — | Libba Bray (via onlinecounsellingcollege) |
Conversation with Kariz
P: All I wanted was to talk to her again, but I feel I took that for granted.
K: It's okay, because we're talking to her right now. So she can hear you.
P: Yeah, but I'm sad knowing that I won't be able to hear her anymore.
K: That's just a bummer for all of us ...
(we embrace and cry together)
P: I'm sorry, Kariz, I'm crying on your shirt.
K: It's alright, that's how you feel. I love you, okay?
P: but I'm not used to hearing that! (cries harder)
K: I know you're not used to it. but if you start saying it to yourself, you'll have an easier time hearing it come from others.
true that
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they found your tumblrThey should be happy. I only post the best stuff.
